As a background for my sex-stories, I wrote an essay titled: 'No' means no, but does 'Yes' mean yes? You can find it in the Essay genre of this website. I basically realized that porn-ladies are paid to get laid. And I could find such ladies who did it in private with guys. So, I went out and found such ladies for some porn-like experience with them.
Some people call themselves porn-addicts. But I prefer to call myself a porn connoisseur. Because I like women, and I enjoy watching porn.
The thing about being a porn connoisseur is that sooner or later you will want to become that porn-stud, who gets to nail every hot lady like a slut. Because most porn ladies are hot. They make your cock like a rock. And these ladies aren't shy about taking on a cocky guy. Pussy, ass, and DP. These ladies really get you going with your hand on your cock. But your hand is there only for fantasies and practice. It can never satisfy you completely. So, sooner or later you start asking why you can't be that cocky guy, who gets to nail every hot chick with his big dick?
And that's what happened to me. There was no way I could be satisfied with just watching hot ladies get creampied.
I needed to find some sexy ladies, who were willing to do this kind of stuff with me. And I wasn't so naive as to think that porn ladies were going on their fucking spree for free. I knew these ladies were paid to get laid. These ladies were working, when they spread their pussies and took their porking. That's what made them so good in bed with guys. These ladies weren't there for their own pleasure. They were there to please the guys. And please the guys, until they almost received creampies, these porn ladies certainly did.
Some guys are turned off by the idea that the hot lady is working with you, when she does it with you. But porn ladies are also working, when they spread their pussies and asses for their hot porking. And if you've watched any porn at all, then for sure you've fallen for some hot sex-working girl.
Porn is a good example of what sex-work can be like for the lady. Because porn-ladies are actually working, when you see their porking. And porn is also a good example of how a hot lady sex-working with you can be pleasant and good for you.
Sure, you can find bad working conditions and even exploitation in almost any occupation. But it doesn't have to be this way. And porn is a good example of that, when it comes to hot ladies doing sex-work with guys.
Work is often enjoyable and fulfilling to do, provided that you are good at it, and you have a lot of autonomy, respect, and good pay. That's how it is for porn-stars. And this is the ideal for other sex-workers too, who do it off camera with you.
The trick is not to be a dick. You need to communicate, negotiate and agree, before you go on your fucking spree. Because that's how porn scenes are set up with the working ladies, before they take on their fucking guys.
I got used to the idea of doing it with sex-workers and enjoying it too by watching a lot of porn. Because I didn't just see porn-ladies doing it with guys. I saw sex-workers who were doing it for pay in a hot kind of way. So, I wanted to be that cocky guy, who almost gives his hot sex-working lady a good creampie.
I needed to find sex-worker ladies. And my first thought was literally to become a porn-stud. I wanted to join the porn industry. I scoured porn forums in search of information. And at one website based in the Czech Republic in Europe I found an eye-opening discussion. A porn director said that most of his porn ladies also work at escort agencies and in brothels. These ladies have sex for money outside of porn too. Apparently, so-called prostitution was legal in the Czech Republic and in some other neighboring countries where his porn-ladies came from. So, there wasn't really any difference between porn-stars and so-called prostitutes. They were often one and the same.
Which kind of made sense from these ladies' point of view. Sex-work is sex-work and money is money, regardless of whether you have a camera filming you or not.
Doing it in private and with only one guy, who is probably an amateur, is actually easier and less work for the lady. Because when the lady takes on one of those professional porn-studs who performs in porn films, then such a porn-stud can really pound her and for a long time too. Pussy and ass and maybe DP too, if they have more than one guy doing the lady. These guys take all kinds of performance enhancers. Which enables them to put their hot lady through all the paces for a good half-hour or more. And if the lady takes on 2 or 3 guys, then she ends up working her ass off and not just her pussy. Porn-work is really work for the lady. Doing it in private with an amateur guy is taking it easy for her.
This revelation about porn-ladies also working at escort agencies and in brothels was eye-opening for me. Because in USA, most porn-ladies don't openly admit that they have sex for money outside of porn. This kind of stuff is illegal almost everywhere in USA. And this means that US porn ladies either restrict themselves to legal sex-work, or they do it in private and don't tell anybody to avoid incriminating themselves.
I realized that there wasn't much difference between porn-ladies and other types of sex-workers. There was a difference in the law and the rules. But this difference was only in the way people treated them. It wasn't a difference in the ladies themselves.
I did some more research about where to find such ladies. I knew I could find such a lady in the place where I lived. But I didn't want to break the law, when I got to nail her. So, I finally settled on going to Thailand, Pattaya more specifically. Because this place has a reputation for having hordes of hot Asian chicks pursuing hard Caucasian dicks.
And right I certainly was, when I've arrived there. I came there in between tourist seasons, and there weren't many other foreign guys like me. I stood out among the people there as a Caucasian among Asians. I didn't have any lady with me. And the working ladies there naturally assumed that I was in need of a woman. I got cat-called and approached from every direction. I liked the women and wanted to do it with them. But when 20 women are after you, then this can be a little intimidating for you. This was when I've learned the meaning of what it's like to be looked as a peace of meat. These ladies didn't look at me as a person. They looked at me as a guy to fuck, in exchange for some compensation, after I do my penetration.
I came to meet these ladies alright. But I couldn't give every hot lady a good ride. There were too many of them. I ended up saying 'No!' a lot, even to some really hot ladies for whom I would've fallen right away in some other place.
I walked around town aimlessly with hot ladies sexually harassing me once in a while here and there. Eventually I ended up on some crowded street after dark. And as I was passing by an open air bar, a good-looking lady ran out and stood in my way. I could see even from afar that she wasn't wearing a bra. Because her big, thick nipples clearly stood out through her 'modest' T-shirt. Her T-shirt wasn't transparent or anything like that, and she wasn't huge in the boob department. But I could see that her big thick nipples were holding up her T-shirt, as she approached me.
I was tempted alright. But by this time I was so used to saying 'No' to hot ladies approaching me, that this was what I said to her. I said 'No' to her, but I couldn't take my eyes off her big thick nipples sticking out through her T-shirt. She saw my avid interest in her nipples and immediately had her way with me. She started pinching and pulling on her big thick nipples through her thin T-shirt right there and then in front of me.
I gasped and stared in surprise. This hot lady wasn't just pinching and pulling on her big thick nipples for fun. She made herself have a big nipple erection pointing in my direction. Her nipples were even bigger and thicker than before. They really stood out through her T-shirt now. I couldn't look away from her.
I also wanted to grab her nipples and play around with them like that, then suck on them for some extra fun. This hot lady had me where she wanted. I could no longer say 'No' to her. I looked at her big, thick nipples with a hungry eye. And she knew I was now her cocky guy.
I followed this lady to her bar and had some drinks with her and her friends. It didn't take her long to tell me how much money she wanted to play around with my big dong. And it wasn't a hard transaction kind of thing. It was more like she wanted me to be her friend with benefits. We would stay together in my hotel room for some good boom-boom. And then we would just go around sight-seeing and partying the rest of the time.
That's how we ended up doing it, when we agreed on the money I was going to give her every day. And it wasn't a lot of money for me, because the cost of living was much lower in Thailand, than where I came from. So, the money we agreed upon was good enough for both me and her.
We went to my hotel room, and she stayed with me for the next few days. My first night with her was exciting alright. I played around with her big thick nipples and gave her a good pussy ride. Doggy position is the one she liked. And that's how we did it.
But my stud abilities with this hot lady turned out be less than I hoped for and anticipated. Because I did this lady hard-and-fast, and I couldn't last. And it wasn't just that. After I shot my cum a couple of times, I ended up being so sexually satisfied that I didn't have much desire to do it with her anymore. So, we didn't fuck around with each other nearly as much, as I had hoped for before.
This experience turned out a bit of a disappointment for me. There was nothing wrong with the lady or how she treated me. It was because I didn't yet fully understand my own body and how to pace myself, so that I could last for a long time with the lady and enjoy it with her.
I had yet much to learn about being a stud. How to last longer with the ladies and how not to lose my interest in them. This was what I needed to learn. And learn this I did with other ladies in other situations in Thailand. But this is material for another sex story.